so i just asked my mom
“ikea has four-poster bed frames, but is that too…childish?”
and she goes, “no! you can get a four-poster as an adult! although, boys aren’t going to want to sleep in it, all that chiffony, girly business”
(can she read minds????)
but i don’t want it to be chiffony/”girly business”
but i do want to fuck people in it, so…..
at least i have all winter/spring to decide.